Preparing Your Child for Private School Interviews

A clear, practical guide for parents

The private school interview is a key part of the admissions process. While exams test academic ability, interviews help schools assess character, curiosity, confidence, and overall fit. Often, it’s the interview that makes the final decision.

The aim isn’t a perfect performance — it’s to show potential.

Why Interviews Matter

With many children heavily tutored for entrance exams, interviews help schools distinguish between those who can pass tests and those who are genuinely teachable. Despite being framed as informal, interviews play a decisive role, so calm preparation is essential. An anxious or over-coached child rarely performs well.

What Schools Are Looking For

There’s no single “right” personality. Schools want to see:

• Genuine enthusiasm and curiosity
• Confidence without arrogance
• Good communication and social awareness
• Warmth, honesty, and interest

Interviewers are skilled at spotting rehearsed answers. Authenticity matters far more than polish.

Common Interview Questions

While questions vary, these are frequently asked:

• Why do you want to come to this school?
• What do you enjoy about your current school?
• What book have you read recently?
• What do you like doing in your spare time?
• What’s your favourite subject?
• What would you do if you were Prime Minister for a day?

Children should answer honestly and be able to explain why they like something. Interviews are conversations, not speeches — over-rehearsing can backfire.

Day Schools vs Boarding Schools

London day schools often focus more on academic ability, sometimes including subject-based discussion or problem-solving.

Boarding schools place greater emphasis on pastoral suitability and motivation to board. Parents are often assessed too, particularly for younger children, as schools see education as a partnership.

Should You Hire an Interview Tutor?

For younger children, interview coaching is rarely helpful and can be counterproductive. Reading together, talking, and encouraging curiosity are far better preparation.

Older applicants, especially at sixth form, may benefit from learning how to talk confidently about their interests and achievements.

Online Interviews

Online interviews follow the same principles. Ensure:

• A reliable internet connection
• A quiet, tidy, well-lit space
• Appropriate, comfortable clothing

Parents should stay out of view unless asked to join.

Private school interviews aren’t about perfection. Schools are looking for curiosity, warmth, and potential. A relaxed, honest child will always make the strongest impression.